Deconstruction raises questions that deserve more than a quick answer, and a good book gives you room to sit with them. This is a carefully curated list of the books I recommend to anyone deconstructing or reconstructing their faith.
The books are grouped into three themes. General Deconstruction covers the big picture, including doubt, family life and parenting. Theology is for rethinking the doctrines you were taught, from historical and biblical theology to general theology. Trauma is for people who were hurt in the Church, including through purity culture, sexual abuse and spiritual abuse. You do not have to read them in order. Start with the section that matches the questions you are carrying right now.
This is a living list, and I will add to it as I find more books worth recommending. If there is one that helped you, tell me about it.
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Topics
General Deconstruction
These are resources that will be helpful in general deconstruction or reconstruction themes. This section includes topics like doubt, family life and parenting.
Faith After Doubt
View book — Faith After DoubtResources
Theology
These are resources that will be helpful in deconstructing or reconstructing your theological doctrines. This section includes historical theology, biblical theology and general theology.
UNenlightenment
View book — UNenlightenment
Reading The Bible Again For The First Time
View book — Reading The Bible Again For The First TimeResources
Trauma
These are resources that will be helpful in dealing with various traumas that you may have experienced in the Church. This section includes topics like purity culture, sexual abuse and spiritual abuse.
